Love xD

Love is a mysterious thing..it's an abstract and yet creates a powerful impact on our life. What does love means? What does it means to be in love? How do we know if it's true or just another trick played by the mind? These seems to be like a simple question but sometimes it's the simplest question that can be the most difficult to answer. Love--> it's sounds so easy/simple but yet so complicated and deep. There's a lot of answer to these and it depends on how a person defines it. Generally love means a strong feeling of affection/interest over something/someone. IMO, I think love is being able to fully care and show concern over something/someone. It's generous as it makes you give without expecting anything back. You just want them to be happy and their happiness is what really matters to u. Love doesn't mean that you have to find a perfect person or try to change someone to suit you. If you really love someone, you will be able to accept them for who they are-the way they act,the way they think,their strengths and weaknesses. It's not about finding a perfect person. It's about turning that imperfection into perfection and something beautiful. Everything about that person is just great! You know that you are in love with someone when you are really attracted to that person. You are comfortable talking with them and being with them makes your heart beats faster. It feels as if time passes by so fast when you are with that person and there's not even a single boring moment around them. When you are around them, other thing doesn't really matter..all you see is her/him! You had do anything just to make them happy and seeing them smile/laugh makes u happy while seeing them sad hurts u. You care about them so much that you try to find out what happened to them. You think about them every single day and even if for some reason you try to ignore/avoid them,no matter how hard you try that person will still appear in your mind. And as if it's going against the law of nature,the more you try to go away,the more you will find yourself unexpectedly end up being with him/her in unexplained situations/unforeseen circumstances. It's like when love really exist between two person, no matter which direction you go, both forces will still collide with one another in the end. When you are feeling depressed, thinking about them makes you feel better. You want to be by their side. You want to spend your day with them. You want to do something and go to special places with them. You feel good about sharing your past experience and pain with them in hoping that they are able to understand you better. You want to protect them in every way possible. You think about your future with that someone. And when you feel so alone in this world, the person that popped into your head is him/her..someone who you truly care of and cares about u! I believe when you truly love someone, there's no such thing as love issues as they are only excuses to leave the relationship. If you truly love someone, know that love is all around you. You just have to feel and seek it. Love is also about tolerance and respect. You don't force someone to something that they dislike by using the power of love against them! You don't abuse and question about their love towards you as that's just selfish of you. And no matter how much that person hurts you, you still love them with all your heart. That's just how beautiful love is. If you really care about someone, you really care about them from the bottom of your heart. You will do anything just to see the smile on their face and if you can take away all their pain,you will do so. It will be all about that person and not you. Sometimes it hurts you thinking that you might end up hurt that person in the future to the point where you are scared. You are scared that you are not enough for her. That a great girl/guy like her/him deserve someone better than you. You don't wanna hurt that person to the point where you rather be hurt alone than her and being hurt emotionally is harder than being hurt physically trying to protect her. Physical pain to the body is just temporary. You can endure it and it heals with the passing of time. Emotionally hurt is different. No matter how long time passes by, the pain will always be there. So you had rather be hurt than her...even if it means making that person to slowly drift away from you. It hurts seeing her going further and further from you. I believe that love comes in a package which are joy and hurt. That's what love means to me...at least what I think. If you found someone who would do these to you or cares about u so much, please hold on to that person...don't ever let go!